To Whom It May Concern,
Hello old high school acquaintance on Facebook, who usually
scrolls past me on their newsfeed. Greetings
to the mom from school who knows my son has a medical condition, but is too
afraid to ask me about it. Dear second cousin Judith, whose
mom told her that my son was really sick, “but thank God he’s okay now.” To my neighbour up the street, to the
kindergarten teacher at the school, to the mom sitting beside me at the
doctor’s office and to the dad sitting beside me at swimming lessons.
This letter is written to anyone that has a child in their life that they care about.
You may have heard of something called Kawasaki disease…but probably
not. Contrary to the name, it has
nothing to do with motorcycles. In
short, Kawasaki disease (KD) is the leading cause of acquired heart disease in
children in developed countries. You may
be thinking, “Acquired heart disease in children? What does that even mean? I thought kids with heart problems are born
with it?” Not all cases of pediatric
heart disease are congenital, or present at birth. Kawasaki disease causes heart disease in
children by forming aneurysms (bulges) in the arteries that supply blood to
the heart. These aneurysms put kids at
risk of developing a blood clot that could cause a heart attack. Children who were born with a healthy heart
now have acquired heart disease.
The current annual incidence rate of Kawasaki disease in Canada
is approximately 29.3 cases per 100,000 children under the age of 5 years
old. You may now be thinking, “Well,
that’s pretty rare. What are the chances
that it will happen to my child?” Yes,
it may seem pretty rare and there is a good chance that your child will never
have Kawasaki disease, but the reality is that the chance of your child (or a
child you care about) having KD still exists.
The probability is not zero. And
I should know. My son was one of those
29 in 100,000 children.
I know firsthand how Kawasaki disease can change a child’s
life. Isaiah was born with a healthy
heart. He was living the life of a
normal two-year-old until he was diagnosed with Kawasaki disease right before
his third birthday. He developed multiple
giant aneurysms as a result and it completely changed his life. He now takes six medications daily (one is
administered twice daily by injection), has endured countless medical
procedures and tests and at four years old underwent a ten-hour long open heart
double bypass surgery. He is still at
risk of having a heart attack and takes blood thinners every day (which poses
other risks) to ensure that he does not develop a clot.
But Isaiah’s story is not the only one. I know families that have endured far
worse.
Last June, my heart sank when I saw a post from one of my dear “KD mom friends.” It was every KD parent’s nightmare. Her four-year-old had suffered a sudden heart attack and had been rushed to the hospital. The damage that had been done to little Carson’s heart was so extensive that he had to be listed for a heart transplant. I was heartbroken. Although I have never met Carson, he and his family are part of my "KD family" and I feel a very special connection to all of them. Carson was placed on ECMO and then a Berlin heart. Thankfully, Carson received the gift of life, a donated heart, a few months later. The months leading up to his transplant were unbelievably difficult for Carson’s family. There were many moments they feared that their angel would be taken away from them. I am so grateful that was not the outcome for sweet Carson.
Last June, my heart sank when I saw a post from one of my dear “KD mom friends.” It was every KD parent’s nightmare. Her four-year-old had suffered a sudden heart attack and had been rushed to the hospital. The damage that had been done to little Carson’s heart was so extensive that he had to be listed for a heart transplant. I was heartbroken. Although I have never met Carson, he and his family are part of my "KD family" and I feel a very special connection to all of them. Carson was placed on ECMO and then a Berlin heart. Thankfully, Carson received the gift of life, a donated heart, a few months later. The months leading up to his transplant were unbelievably difficult for Carson’s family. There were many moments they feared that their angel would be taken away from them. I am so grateful that was not the outcome for sweet Carson.
Carson at his recent transplant clinic visit. (You can read more about Carson’s story by joining his Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/187251738472699/) |
Tragically, for another friend of mine, the outcome was very different. Elizabeth lost her son Dylan as the result of an undiagnosed case of Kawasaki disease. At six years old, Dylan suffered a fatal heart attack, which was caused by a blockage in his coronary arteries. Elizabeth had never heard of KD until she received the autopsy report after Dylan’s death. I did not have the pleasure of knowing Dylan, but my heart aches for Elizabeth and her family whenever I see photos of Dylan’s vibrant smile or read Elizabeth’s touching posts at each passing birthday, pondering what Dylan’s life would be like if he were still here with them.
I am not telling you these stories to scare you…or maybe I
am.
Most cases of KD do not have these endings, but they
can. I am sharing these stories, because
I want you to understand why it is so important to learn the symptoms of KD and be
aware of them. Your child may not be
that one in 29 out of a 100,000, but what if they are? Wouldn’t you want to know that you did
everything you could to increase their chances of a better outcome and a happy
ending for your family? In this case,
“everything you could” can be as simple as learning the symptoms and raising
the possibility of KD with your child’s doctor.
Here’s what you need to know.
Common symptoms of Kawasaki disease include:
- Fever (usually for five days or more)
- Body rash
- Swollen lymph nodes (those are located in the neck and may appear as bumps/lumps)
- Red eyes
- Redness on palms of hands or soles of the feet
- Swollen hands or feet
- Dry, cracked lips
- Red, bumpy tongue (often referred to as “strawberry tongue”)
It is important to note that not all symptoms may be present
and they may not all occur at the same time.
Infants under the age of 6 months, may only have prolonged fever and
irritability as symptoms. And to be
clear, children over the age of 5 can also have Kawasaki disease.
If your child has a prolonged fever with two or more of
these symptoms, ask your doctor if it could be Kawasaki disease. Early detection is critical, as timely
treatment will significantly reduce the chances of permanent heart damage (from
25% to less than 5%).
(Visit kdcanada.org to learn more.)
Some doctors may wave off the idea of KD, because “it is too
rare,” or “your child doesn’t have all the symptoms,” or my favourite, “but
your child isn’t Asian.” (There is a higher incidence rate in children of Asian
descent, but if affects children of all ethnicities.) He/she may be right, but at least you will
have gotten him/her thinking about it and if the fever persists or more
symptoms appear, bring it up again.
While most doctors do learn about Kawasaki disease in med school, I am sure many could
use a bit of reminding. Some doctors may
have never actually seen a case of KD and others may only recall the “textbook
scenarios” and not consider cases where fewer than four of the symptoms are
present. It can’t hurt to bring it into
the conversation – you are the best advocate for your loved one.
Thank you for taking the time to read this. While I hope you never have to actually use
this information, I am glad that you now have knowledge that could help save a
child’s heart. But don’t just stop
there, go educate your second cousin Judith, your neighbour up the street and your mom
friend from your child's school. I am sure they
all have children in their lives that they care about.
Yours truly,
Carin
Mom of a Kawasaki Disease Warrior
P.S. Huge thanks to Gina (Carson's mom) and Elizabeth (Dylan's mom) for allowing me to share their stories and post photos of their beautiful sons. xo
Yours truly,
Carin
Mom of a Kawasaki Disease Warrior
P.S. Huge thanks to Gina (Carson's mom) and Elizabeth (Dylan's mom) for allowing me to share their stories and post photos of their beautiful sons. xo
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